Dating and relationships can bring up a particular kind of unease-one that makes you second-guess what you feel, why you feel it, and whether you’re allowed to trust it. You might feel unsettled in a relationship that looks good on paper, or notice a persistent sense of doubt after dates, conversations, or moments of closeness. And then the overthinking begins. Am I ignoring a red flag? Am I sabotaging something good? Can I trust myself? For thoughtful, self-aware people, the

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Why is it so easy to show up for everyone else-but so hard to show up for yourself? If you’ve ever found yourself shrinking your needs, brushing off your feelings, or convincing yourself that “it’s not a big deal,” you’re not alone. Many people abandon themselves in relationships without even realizing they are doing it. Self-abandonment in relationships often begins as a survival strategy-something that once helped you stay safe-but over time it can leave you feeling resentf

Why the Holidays Feel Hard When You’re Single The holiday season can be a time of joy, togetherness, and celebration—but if you’re single (and don’t want to be), it can also feel like a spotlight on your relationship status. Between well-meaning relatives asking questions and the constant stream of cozy couples on social media, it’s easy to feel like you’re missing out. But being single during the holidays doesn’t have to be a downer. Being Single During the Holidays: How to

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